Stop Divorce – I Want My Wife Back Because It’s All My Fault
Do you know that 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce? This is a sad fact, but you have to realize that there is still a way to prevent divorce when your marriage is on the rocks.
We screw up sometimes. We make some mistakes in our life. However, some mistakes can be forgiven no matter how dire you think the situation is. Too bad there is no manual on how to be a good husband or a good person for that matter. Is there really a way to stop a divorce?
Listen, what you need to do in order for you to stop divorce is to practice humility. They say that patience is a virtue, but I say that humility is an even noble virtue. You really need to swallow your pride, most especially if you are the one who is at fault. There is no other way to get her forgiveness. You really need to say sorry and apologize to her.
An apology consists of two parts. One, the act of asking forgiveness or saying that you are sorry for what you did. Two, saying that you will make it up to her and telling her that you will never make the same mistake again. “I apologize for the things that I did. I will never do it again and I promise to make it up to you.” That is the most basic apology. However, you really have to follow up on your promise that you will never repeat the same mistake again.
When you are communicating with your spouse, do not cover up your mistakes. Do not argue with her. Listen to her grievances and don’t interrupt. I know this is hard to do – to sit down and be lambasted. There is just no other way. Do not tell her that what you did is just a small thing because for her it is a big deal. Big enough to cause you your marriage.
If you have problems with alcohol or drugs, I suggest that you fix this right away before you apologize. Show your wife through action that you are indeed going to change your ways. The same advice goes if you are having anger problems. Go seek professional help first to show her that you are really mending your ways.
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